It felt a little like everything
was going too well, and as the next week proved, maybe it was. Sunday morning we dropped off our rental on
the way to church and then headed to service where we were reunited with
friends from our last visit in August.
We had a great Sunday morning, met some new people, and generally felt
like we were settling in well. The next
couple days we settled into a temporary routine of beach time and project
time. We visited all the local grocery
stores and worked to identify what foods would be practical to eat more often
and which would be more practical to eat less.
Cheddar cheese and Peanut butter
proved to be prohibitively expensive, so some recipes will have to be amended. Wednesday night we visited Casa Vida, the
Spanish speaking church we plan to attend.
It was good, the Spanish was a little rapid fire, but we all need to get
our ears more exposure and our mouths more opportunity. Thursday things started to deteriorate a
bit. Colson came down with a fever, and
although he was much better Friday, Liam and I started in. I was sick in bed for about 4 days, and Lyd
graciously cared for me and the boys and was so good in spite of being very house
bound during my recovery. We missed a
number of activities we had planned with friends and churches, and were feeling
pretty down about it all. Finally Monday
I was starting to regain my strength, and Lyd got sick. Another 4 days in the house, more missed
events including Thanksgiving, more discouragement. Finally after nearly 9 days of house bound
sickness we all were on the mend and able to visit a couple churches
Sunday. We still don’t know what exactly
it was that hit us, but we were out of commission for what felt like an
eternity.
We anticipated before coming that
we would hit a low point probably after 3-4 weeks. I think for all of us, being sick accelerated
that timeline. We definitely were living
each day by faith as illness brought that question right to the front of all
our minds “WHAT ARE WE DOING???” Our situation
is a little unique in that we don’t have a ready answer to that question. We are here looking for opportunity, and
although we know it exists, it takes time to first identify, and then see how
we will fit into it. This is a blessing
and a curse! First, we don’t have many
responsibilities at the moment, which is allowing us to live one day at a time
as we adjust and learn this very new culture.
On the other hand, when discouragement happens, it is easy to give into
a sense of purposelessness. I remember a
very similar feeling when Lyd and I were looking for a business to start. It took nearly 18 months of thought and
diligent looking before we settled on online retail. It was very discouraging in that most of that
18 months was spent exploring dead ends that wound up being completely
unrelated to what we eventually found ourselves doing. In that process we learned that sometimes the
best things require diligent searching to uncover. We believe the same will prove to be true
here in Tamarindo. There are many opportunities
that remain completely untapped and part of the reason is because the time hasn’t
been invested in exploring, thinking, praying and testing. One thing that has stood out to us so far is that
any ministry here, will have to be relationship based. The church we visited this last Sunday is run
by a couple who started a coffee shop here in Tamarindo in an effort to facilitate
one on one relationships with people who need the Lord. This is very exciting
to us, as it demonstrates the kind of creativity and sensitivity that seems to
be needed for ministry to be successful in community where everything happens
based on relationships.
Please keep us in your prayers as
we have so much to learn! We feel like
we have been through a very discouraging stage, and we are on the more cheerful
other side. The truth is there will be
many challenges that we can’t even imagine at this point and we need faith to
continue putting one foot in front of another even when the path isn’t clear
and the times are discouraging. We are
happy to be here and right now it looks like we are set for some smoother
sailing for a while, Lord willing. We are praising the Lord for His continued provision
and grace! Please pray for us as the
arrival of our little girl draws near.
Pray for good health and smooth transitions as we move two more times in
the next three months. Pray for opportunities
that complement our gifting as we seek to be effective in serving the Lord
here.
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Love the picture of Colson and Liam! Yucky sickness...Reading between the lines and imagining how lonely it must have been being so sick for so long. We've been wanting to just call you up and have you for a movie, that feeling happens about um well... every day! So sorry you were sick right off the bat. Lord willing that discouraging part will stay away for a long long time!!! So glad you have made some church connections and some observations. The Lord will show you what is next. He is so faithful! The verse that ALWAYS seems to be on my mind. "Wait for the Lord, Be strong and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord." Psalm 27:14. We miss you more each week. I knew the third week would be harder. Thank you for the update you guys. You are in our thoughts and prayers so often. Praying for opportunities for you and praying for your sweet baby girl! Love you guys!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the update! We enjoyed a chance to get into the experience a bit more and hear your thoughts. It was an interesting mental picture of Andy scrambling around trying to gather 17 suitcases in JFK while Lydia held onto the boys. The idyllic beach pictures make me feel better.
ReplyDeleteOf course you know we are praying for you; for opportunities, for encouragement, for close friendships, for family relationships and needs to be met, for Baby Girl, for Spanish learning and culture adjustment, and that you would see the purpose and timing of the Lord as you seek. Learn in everything how to encourage your heart in the Lord like David did after Ziklag in the end of 1 Samuel, and do not fear.
The really great thing about how you are doing this adventure, is you don't have to explain to a mission board or supporters why you went to the beach today, or why it has been x amount of time and you still don't know what you are doing. Settle in, learn, take care of Lydia's needs, and wait on the Lord. I think it's OK to rest up a bit.
We love and miss all of you, and look forward to your continued reports and pictures.
Mom, for all of us